HARD WORK

We all know to achieve success in life the only key for it is HARD WORK.Many people believe in luck but as per me hard work makes your luck best.Their is no other substitute for hard work.Many people wait for opportunity to cross their path but the truth is opportunities are abundant its only your hard work,your initiative which will make your opportunity to cross your path. 

Today we see that technology has improved in such an extent that a person can  have lunch in Paris and a dinner in a New York on the same day.There lies a great contribution of people to invent this means of transportation,which were the result of their hard work and great efforts.If they would have waited for opportunities to come, we would have not seen this invention.To excel in our carrier all we need to do is hard work.No one had reached at peak without hard work. 

Hard work itself has its own meaning.We need to put all our energy in one direction to achieve success and its done by hard work.While working hard one need to have determination and focus on their task.When person starts working hard he creates his own world around him.Things may seems difficult but his hard work make them possible.

Everyone has potential to reach their destination.Whether your luck prevails or not condition being hard work and efforts,which will pick you up wherever you are.


                               

MY LIFE EXPERIENCE - HARD TIME

Everyone faces hard time in their life.Many lose their hopes and get defeated.In life we all face ups and downs all we need is the power to overcome all our failures and look ahead.In this blog i will share my experience and how i overcome my failure.

I passed out my 10th std with 90.73% and those were the best days for me.All people around me were so proud of me.Everyone around me appreciated  me so much and respect they gave me i just can't explain in words.My Parents proudly use to say everyone my daughter scored 90% in SSC that feeling for me was like i am living in heaven.Getting good marks in SSC  because of it surely i got best college of Navi Mumbai FATHER AGNEL COLLEGE,Vashi.It was like my dream came true.I chose computer science for 11th -12th.I was with full preparation to rock in college.My college started from July.I was giving my best and the next moment i was hit down on the ground.It started with bit stomach pain as days were moving ahead my pain started increasing.One day in chemistry lab when i was performing practical i fainted and fell down on the floor.From that day my pain started increasing terribly.My treatment was going on but doctors was not able to find the root cause of my stomach pain.In blood test doctor came to know that my WBC'S has increased tremendously,maximum it should be 11,000 and mine was 22,000.From that day i was admitted in hospital for 8 days still my WBC'S was not in normal range but it came down to 17,000.Doctor highly recommended me to stay at home.After coming home my stomach use to pain a lot.I was not able to study .All i use to do is have food,take medicines and sleep.My pain increased in that way that was not tolerable for me.I use to shout ,cry hard and roll on floor because of pain.It was not bearable for me. My apartment people use to gather in my house because of my noise.During that terrible pain i use to literally say to god please take me up i can't bare this anymore and by seeing all this my mother use to cry.My father use to run to hospital.By seeing all this i was totally shattered inside.All my dreams to rock in college was getting away from me, days by days my illness took away all my hopes and made me totally fall on ground,Around two months  i was going through that pain it was actually kidney stone pain,No college,no studies in those two months.More than 50 salines i took in those two months and injections maybe 80+.I was not only physically ill but mentally too.I use to cry a lot ,i use to blame god that why you giving me this terrible  pain.From birth i never saw tears in my father's eyes and once when i was rolling on floor due to pain i saw tears in his eyes that moment whenever i think i cry.Seeing his tears broke me more.At some moment i thought to end up my life but my parents love took me away from that thought.I was in the process of recovery and that time i was hit down once more.My neighbor was so much attached to me ,from my childhood i was under his shadow he use to call me as his daughter and i would call him as my first mentor.His love for me was infinite.He was suffering from jaundice and we both got ill in same time.We both were admitted in same hospital.I was shock to hear that he expired.All his words,his love for me i can't forget.Losing person so much close to you is the greatest loss.After seeing his dead body all made me more down and broken.Physically and mentally on both sides i was ill.Some how i gathered all energy and started recovering.My Parents, teachers and friend helped me a lot to recover.I knew i was totally down in my academics but then i still aroused little hope in me to do better.I started working hard simultaneously i started taking care of my health.Some how i managed to scored 60% in 11th.The scores was really poor comparatively to 10th std but It gave me hope to work on my dreams.

My 12th std started i was physically recovered but mentally still i was not 100% recovered.All 11 std failures was pulling me back.One day i thought whatever made me fall i will rise up now,i will never regret and blame god.I will get back real me.I will work hard .I started  working hard and pushing me up.I use to throw away all negative thoughts and use to focus only on positivity .It gave me strength to work hard.I was getting back with real me and now life once again played game with me.It was December when it was crucial time for us to study because boards exams was only  2 months away .At starting symptoms was that i was not able to eat food ,whenever i use take food near my mouth i use to vomit because of  it i started skipping my lunch and dinner.I was more focused on studies so i didn't considered as a problem . I got more weak and time came in such way that while walking i use to faint.My body was not in my control.So again i was admitted 15 days or maybe more then that.My 1st prilim exam started in college and i was admitted in hospital.It was like history was repeating.Even doctor was not getting the cause of my illness.They were not able to detect my disease .One day i lost my voice in morning that was really dangerous for me,I was not able to speak .I was immediately moved to MGM hospital within 4-5 hrs my voice came back but those 4-5 hrs was worst for me and my whole family.It was due to some chemical reaction of medicines which reacted in terms of losing my voice temporary .During that time my dad was in Gujarat and my mother was alone.She was totally shattered again by seeing me in this condition,Even i lost all my hopes because all flashbacks were coming in my mind and god was putting me in same condition again and again.I was totally weak and broken again.This time my mother was facing alone and she was only support for me.Being in army for my dad it was not able to come back from Gujarat.My mother called my cousin to gives us support .At last we came to know that i'm suffering from jaundice and that was scary moment because my neighbor died because of jaundice only.After that i got right treatment and i started recovering.By that time it was January mid .My parents ,teachers everyone said me to take drop in 12th std but my inner voice was not listening all i decided was i will appear for exam and i will give my best because of my last year experience i learned one thing '" no matter  how many hurdles god  put in our path there is also way to jump over it".So i started studying again without any regrets ,all my aim was to do my best.I studied hard and i scored 72% in 12th with First class i passed out.After passing all were proud because i didn't give up.In those two years of my life i learned so many things ,i experienced so many things which actually made me stronger.All i did was i kept on fighting and working hard and i always kept my hope awake.Now when i look back i see that it was not right that happened to me but i feel proud of myself that i fought against it and continued my journey.

A DAUGHTER'S LETTER TO HER MOTHER

When i get up in the morning i realize i am  late.Mom in your absence no one wakes me up.I hurry up the things i am unable to find my proper clothes,watch and socks.I skip my breakfast because mom in your absence there is no one to serve me a breakfast.I go to college i am already late,my teachers shouts at me and i silently listen to them.During lecture when i am thirsty i realize i forgot to take water bottle because mom in your absence no one fills up my bag.When its recess time i realize i don't have lunch box because mom in your absence no one gives me a lunch box .Whole day i am hungry.

When i returned to home, mom there is no one to ask me how was my day.As i am hungry i starts making sandwich for me and then i realize daily when i am back from college my supper is ready on table.While chopping veggies i cut my finger and in your absence mom there is no one to apply bandage on it.I have to do all household work alone and i realize in your presence mom i had no work.When i go to bed there is no one to ask me whether i am tired because in your absence mom no one cares.When i am unable to sleep  there is no one to tell me stories because mom its only you who really cares. When i want to share my secrets there is no one to listen because mom its only you who listens to me.

When i am alone i realize without you mom i am no one.You are the best mom in this world and i can't live without you. I really loves you a lot.

MY BEST FRIEND

Many people are lucky to have best friend in their life, on other side there are some people who have never experienced the person "BEST FRIEND" in their life.To have best friend in life itself is the beautiful thing.The beauty of this relationship keeps on increasing with time.

My best friend is Sneha Savane(laughter queen) .She is the one who is most closet to me.I share every small small things with her.She is so much emotionally connected  to me.I do any stupid things with her.She is the one who always stands for me and understands me.She wipes my tears make me laugh louder.She cares a lot for me.The unique quality about her is she can laugh continuously for an hour.Her innocence,simplicity and loyalty makes our bond more stronger.It's the times we are so high so crazy,that people think we are high.It's the times we laugh so hard,we can't help but cry.It's all the inside jokes and "remember whens".Those are the reasons that we are best friends!

MY MENTOR

Every person can achieve great success in their life but due to the lack of guidance they can't achieve it.To achieve success in our life we need one person who gives us proper guidance, proper nourishment and one who have faith in us and that person is called as "MENTOR". He gives us the purpose to live,to dream big ,shows us the right path and he always stand with you.

I'm so blessed that i have mentor in my life.My mentor is role model for me.He is not an Indian but his heart beats for India.He is from Nepal.He is gold medalist in physiotherapy from Rajeev Gandhi university of health sciences. He is none another than Dr.SURENDRA AYER SIR.He is a source of inspiration.First meeting with sir completely changed me.It was life changing meeting for me.In that meeting i shared everything about my life.After listening to me sir told me" renuka you are confused in your life , you need to have goal in your life" that was the realization point for me.After that he guided me, showed me the  right track and he even made me realize the importance of our parents.He shared his story with me that was really motivating for me and whenever i think about it i automatically gets motivated.
                                         
                                               

Dr.SURENDRA SIR

Sir always tells me "renuka i have complete faith in you" this words of him inspires me to work hard.He gives me small small targets and i give my best to complete it.I will always make my mentor proud. 

PARENTS BOUGHT ME IN THIS WORLD BUT SIR YOU TAUGHT ME HOW TO LIVE IN THIS WORLD.

#THANKS TO i3 

QUOTES TO REMEMBER

1) HE WHO FEARS BEING CONQUERED IS SURE OF DEFEAT.
                                                                                                      - NAPOLEON BONAPARTE

2) THERE IS NO FAILURE EXCEPT IN NO LONGER TRYING.
                                                                                                     - ELBERT HUBBARD

3) FAILURE TEACHES SUCCESS.
                                                                                                      - JAPANESE SAYING

4) PATIENCE,PERSISTENCE AND PERSPIRATION MAKE AN UNBEATABLE                         COMBINATION FOR SUCCESS.
                                                                                                     - NAPOLEON HIL 

5) WELL ARRANGED TIME IS THE SUREST MARK OF A WELL ARRANGED MIND.
                                                                                                    - SIR ISAAC PITMAN

6) ALL OUR DREAMS CAN COME TRUE,IF WE HAVE THE COURAGE TO PURSUE THEM.
                                                                                                    - WALT DISNEY 
 
7) A MAN IS NOT OLD UNTIL REGRETS TAKE THE PLACE OF DREAMS.
                                                                                                    - JOHN BARRYMORE   

8) IF YOU TAKE RESPONSIBILITY FOR YOURSELF YOU WILL DEVELOP A HUNGER TO ACCOMPLISH YOUR DREAMS.
                                                                                                   - LES BROWN

9) SUCCESS CONSISTS OF GOING FROM FAILURE TO FAILURE WITHOUT LOSS OF ENTHUSIASM.
                                                                                                 - WINSTON CHURCHILL

10) IN ORDER TO SUCCEED, YOUR DESIRE FOR SUCCESS SHOULD BE GREATER THAN YOUR FEAR OF FAILURE.
                                                                                                 - BILL COSBY
                                                              

BROTHERS AND SISTERS

Today i am going to write about amazing relationship which we have between brothers and sisters.From our birth the one who is our friend as well as family is none another than our brothers and sisters.The best part of this relationship is we get nourished in the same environment,we share same toys,we carry same values with us.Our first fight is with our brothers and sisters.It is truly said "We fight with one who is our own".

                                                     
                                     
Best part of this relationship is that they can share every small things with each other ,they shares their tears ,laughter and every small part of their life.As youngsters they may seem like arch enemies at times, but as they grow older the ties that bind become as strong as the love between them.They will always stand for each other.They will never make each other feel alone throughout their life.They have unbreakable bond and that is God's greatest gift to parents.
                     
                                
                                             

PARENTS

Today i am going to write about that beautiful gift with which we all  are gifted and blessed by god and that is our "PARENTS". Yes the one who bought us in this world.Just think that how would be our life without our parents.Who would have thought us how to walk,talk etc.Who would have fulfilled all our wishes.Without them our life is just impossible.


When we enter in this world mom have to bare so much of pain in spite of this pain when she looks at us  her pain vanishes and Dad is the most happiest person in this world that day.This is what we can call as a true love.After child's birth parents just concentrate on  their child's needs and they put their whole efforts to fulfill those needs.They give their best .As child starts growing up parents responsibility increases they give up their dreams and they starts fulfilling child's dreams.For parents their child becomes first priority .They do so much of hard work because they want their child's secure future.No matter through what condition they are going, they never show pressure to their child because they love so much and they don't want their child to feel that pressure.In your hard times only parents will stand with you.No matter how old you become for your parents you will be always small child.Parents love for their child is infinite.

                             GOD GAVE US LIFE WITH HAPPY AND SAD MOMENTS,
          BUT PARENTS ALWAYS TRY TO GIVE US ONLY HAPPY MOMENTS.
 

TRANSFORMATION

                    DAYS NEVER REMAIN SAME WHEN ONE REALLY HAVE                                           THAT FIRE TO CHANGE IT!!!!!
Ya!!! exactly same happened in my case.After doing global level project i.e.(NEWSPAPER BAG PROJECT) on this Sunday the feedback that i got from my parents,relatives,teachers,friends was unbelievable.Every person with whom i shared about the project which i did, there feedback was  "I'M PROUD OF YOU RENU". This feedback totally changed me.It buildup so much of confidence in me.As you already know about my blog "MY FIRST STEP" its all about project.Feedback for that blog was really awesome!!!My mentor said me its " FABULOUS" many of people where like you can really start writing blogs and it aroused me now to write this blog.The best part  was, around 8:30pm at 14th September my mentor Dr.Surendra sir called me and gave me a biggest Surpise (it was really unbelievable for me) that was "renuka you are invited as guest speaker in Bharti Vidyapeeth college". That feeling i still can't explain.I was totally amazed!!The girl who never had experience in her college or school days to speak in front of people is now invited as guest speaker in another college.That moment was one of the best moment of my life.After that i immediately called my dad to share this news with him.His words was "I'M PROUD OF YOU RENU" that very moment tears rolled down from my eyes.My very first dream was that "my dad should say I'm proud of you" and it became true.That night i really couldn't sleep.Renu which was before was now totally changed.It gave me so much of confidence.Now that day arrived when i had to speak in front of 100students.Conference started by 12pm .During the whole conference i got to learn so many things.The way my mentor speaks ,the way they give thanks to people,the way they represent themselves,the way they share their ideas ,stories and many more.That moment arrived when i have to speak in front of 100 students, only thing which was going through my mind was that i have to give my best.Bharath sir gave wonderful introduction of mine to students that gave me confidence to speak.And i started with my speech,i shared all my experience that i got from i3 all proud moments and through out my speech my confidence was high.After that i was applauded by students.Few days before for me it was most difficult task and now i have addressed 100students that was really achievement for me and its all became possible because of my parents support,my mentor Dr.Surendra sir who kept so much of faith in me and gave me this opportunity and my i3 family.Dr.Surender sir is a role model for me.Sir told me you rocked it.That was the happiest moment for me.

                                                   OVERCOMING MY STAGE FEAR

i3 has given me so much of confidence.It gave me purpose to live,to dream big and to achieve the things which seems to be impossible.I'm blessed to be part of i3 family.i3 gives the direction to our life and make you fly high.

                                        With  i3 family and HOD of Bharti Vidyapeeth college

Lastly i would conclude that i got INFLUENCED  by my mentors, their stories INSPIRED me and their faith in me IMPACTED through my achievements and  that's what  i3 is!!!

THINGS THAT I HAVE LEARNED:
1)ALWAYS FOLLOW YOUR MENTORS .
2) BELIEVE IN YOURSELF THAT YOU CAN MAKE YOUR DREAMS TRUE.
3)ALWAYS DREAM BIG AND WORK HARD FOR IT.
4)INVEST IN YOURSELF.

NO DISCRIMINATION

When we are small little baby everyone loves us . As we start growing up people start discriminating us by tone,height,weight etc. Unknowingly knowingly we too does the same. The reason behind it is we always want best but is it possible that everyone will get the best????Don't we understand the gift which has been  gifted to us by god itself is the BEST!!!Almost everyone will agree to my question but maybe few will actually understand true sense of it.  

Few minutes before i read the story of Sanah Jivani .She was diagnosed with Alopecia Areata at the age of three.In the seventh grade,Jivani's life changed forever.She says"i woke up one morning and almost all my hair was on my pillow".That would be really nightmare for  us .At this moment question arises in my mind  is that what should be our treatment towards her??surely we all will not make her feel low and support her to fight against it but what we say do we really do?people started bullying her.Was that right way to treat her???Such treatment will surely make that victim more low and  depressed.Same happened with her but she was strong girl and fought against everything.We should understand the fact that imperfection is what makes you perfect . No one in this world is  perfect but their work,humanity and respect for others makes them perfect.Never discriminate people  accept them the way they are.Everyone is unique.

THINGS I HAVE  LEARNED:

1)ACCEPT PEOPLE THE WAY THEY ARE.

2)NEVER DISCRIMINATE.

3)ALWAYS TREAT PEOPLE EQUALLY.

4)ALWAYS HAVE HELP FULL NATURE.

MY FIRST STEP

Today is Sunday.Most of people spend their time in relaxing or  roaming with their friends etc.Today was my first i3 project(iU NPB project )which is global  level project and it comes under top ten global project. where most of people relaxing, we i3 delegates executed NEWSPAPER BAG PROJECT.Around 11 am we all delegates gathered  at 5gardens ,Matunga.We started with our project we all sat down  in shelter of trees.we started with our task.our i3 season 1 delegates and true iuites directed us and helped us in making newspaper bags.while making those bags their was so much of satisfaction deep inside me.In my life i never did such project .Today was the golden opportunity for me to contribute to society .when we do some work for well being of other's that feeling of happiness can't be explained!when we were making those bags a poor little girl came to us and she started making bags too.that was really proud  or satisfactory moment for me .that girl maybe got inspired by our work so she  joined us.our delegates helped her in making bags.

                                      

                                        OUR i3 SEASON 1 DELEGATES HELPING US

                                               SWEET LITTLE GIRL WHO JOINED US

After completing our task our next job was to donate that bag to shopkeepers or any other person and convey them the message that ''REDUCE PLASTIC AND SAVE ENVIRONMENT'' and now GANESH CHATURTHI is near so our next message was to ''USE GANESHA MADE OUT OF MUD''.

  

                                                       MAKING NEWSPAPER BAG

   i3 DELEGATES WITH OUR MENTOR BHARATH SIR 

                                                        

 As  i mentioned above our next task was to donate bag,while returning i met one old man in bus.There was so much of crowd in bus so that old man was not having seat .so our i3 delegate shruti offered him a seat but due to some reasons he couldn't seat . Shruti took his bags on her lap to reduce  his load.we don't know why but that old man gave us bunch of fresh flowers which he bought from Dadar market.maybe he gave us his blessings  in the form of that  flowers.fortunately he got down on the same bus stop where i got down. After  we got down i told him about our project and conveyed him the message of our project.His words after listening me was "BETA TUMHI CHANGLA KAAM KARTAY ANI ASECH KARAT RAHA, MAZA ASHIRWAD AHE TUMCHA SOBAT" those words of him really made me proud and so much satisfaction i got.After that i donated him that newspaper bag.

                                            WHILE DONATING MY NEWSPAPER BAG

At the end i would conclude that "whatever you do ,do with your heart" because true happiness comes from your heart.
   THINGS THAT I HAVE LEARNED;
1)GRAB ALL THE OPPORTUNITIES.
2)NEVER GIVE UP .
3)BE HUMBLE AND STAY HAPPY ALWAYS.
4)SAVE ENVIRONMENT.